Meher Sarid, another wedding planner says, “A wedding in a banquet hall is common. But with the middle-class getting richer, splurging on not-so-ordinary venues is getting popular.” She adds, “There was an NRI couple who wanted a traditional and yet unusual wedding. So we arranged it in the dunes of Rajasthan.” There was also a wedding on an island off Gujarat, with the venue being a jungle with lots of clearing for food and the mandap, she adds.
Jayraj Gupta of shaadi.com remembers a spa wedding he had organised in the Himalayan foothills. “People have started loving the whole drama behind wedding ceremonies The event has become larger than life,” he says. Marriages at these venues also have themes to match the decor. For a beach-front marriage, expect a swimsuit to be the dress code. A marriage in an abandoned church will have long white drapes, for instance. So, be it a wedding on a barge by the seaside or in a cricket stadium, the wilder the idea, the more memories it’s bound to leave.
With the mushrooming of skilled wedding planners all across the country, the common man is seeing a makeover of the traditional pocket- friendly marriages. Tying the knot is no longer about how many tents you
prop up or the pretty lilies a: -■* entrance. The holy matrimony ce* :* in a Roman ambience, a far.-3* castle, a tapovan or at the art • : a > created Niagara Falls with re a ax dress, headgear and food to rra : –
Generating awe amongst invitees, what with fancy deco– a-1 fancier food, is making “a t extravagant and cosmopc *ar marriages a rage in cities >*« Ludhiana, Indore, Surat, Ka-: ■ Ahmedabad and Bhavnagar. – e the luxury wedding has bee- a metropolitan phenomenon for a : z time now, the smaller towns of -zm are now also witnessing extra, a:ax weddings. In one of the wedd ‘:: r Surat, I had the bride landing :* re venue by a crane,” says wee: c planner Vikas Guggutia. He o~e- b variety of themes ranging from rw low-budget floral decors to ha = * and palaces draped in ethnic ;ar * zm like zardosi and brocade fc- r* flexible budget.
Marriage bureaus and We:: tse are mushrooming, the _ i successful ones diversifyr: r
event management. Surpr s – j* there’s a marriage burea. v Bangalore that matches waveie- rather than horoscopes! That s »’-«* is done at Marigold, locate; ar Kammanadhalli. It caters : * growing number of Banglorear: :w to inter-caste and inter-re ; m unions!
However, one really doesr: • -sac to be a king to organise a : * t wedding these days with c::– c technicians, lighting expen: sm
designers, fusion cuisine, er^ -raiment managers and on cn : J graphers available right o’ yc r doorstep. A capable p a-nsd promises a wonder wedding e.e- a a nondescript place. The options in small cities are fa’ : than those available in De * Mumbai.
Dancing at marriages, wh just for fun till now, is gettr: professional. Dance schoo s dancing their way to the ba-». relatives, friends even brice: grooms are approaching t~r– lessons. The rate is Rs 20.: ::
MORE AND MORE PARENTS ARE GETTING MARRIAGE WEBSITES DESIGNED FOR THEIR CHILDREN.
A WEBSITE THAT’LL CAPTURE ALL THE KODAK MOMENTS OF THE WEDDING.
While the entire extravaganza gets bigger and brighter for those with huge budgets the middle class still has the option to be subtle yet stylish. There’s no limit to a wedding expenditure, so what planners do is emphasise glamour only on the focal areas of a marriage. Compromising on a thing or two doesn’t matter to most small-towners who desire an exceptional ceremony for limited funds.
Marriage still holds pride of place in the Indian ethos, the more traditional and lavish, the better. Unsurprisingly, expenses incurred on weddings have been increasing steadily over the years, despite calls for restraint from some quarters. Right from the invitation cards to grooming the bride and the bridegroom expenses are out of this world.
The envelopes are, after all, the first things that the guests get to see and then gauge your socio-economic status. Designer invitation cards with a 24-carat gold embossed border or a Tanjore painting or even something as ornamental as a papier mache jewellery box studded with precious stones are the hot favourites, they’re meant to be cherished and preserved for posterity, for such invitations never see the light of the garbage can. One thing that remains unchanged, however, is the stoic Lord Ganesha on the cover of the card, though with some modifications.
In pandal decor, marigold time a la
traversed widely over the years to become an upwardly mobile phenomenon, in the sense that, from the hands it has gone up to the arms, the waist and also the naval and onto the back in the form of tattoos. From the feet it goes up to the ankles and the legs and maybe higher up which is best left to the imagination. Motifs with fish and other Fengshui symbols rule the roost. Exorbitant cost, of course, doesn’t matter. It’s the coordinated look that counts.
For the bride, it’s a torrid ritual of the pre-bridal package with 12 sittings that start 2 months before the big day, which culminate in the just- before-the-wedding make-up routine and the wedding day make-up and draping of the sari. The parlours are raking in lollies with this new way of making the bride look her best. For that enhanced glow and radiance, popular spa and yoga centres have introduced special wedding packages for the bride as well as the groom.
When it comes to dressing up for the D-Day, Indians like to follow tradition. But, over the years, one has seen the emergence of wedding outfits that mix modernity and tradition just in the right proportion. A traditional bride is slowly making way for a more modern bride in a number of ways. Here’s now:
- Corsets are being liberally used
instead of blouses these days Ire are giving preference to. ha te- spaghetti blouses and e\e* t backless choli.
• Brides are no longer we= re dupattas in a traditional way. s: lift much more of crepe and georgette chiffons so that carrying them around becomes easier.